Our Self Regulation Success

Our Self Regulation Success

by Jenna Schade February 08, 2020

In our family, self-regulation has not come naturally.  From an early age we noticed that our Chloe needed a lot more help from us to manage her thoughts and feelings… especially at bedtime. 

I remember the first time I noticed how other children her age were starting to control their impulses, manage their attention and organise their behaviour whereas she would struggle. 

Despite giving Chloe the same co-regulation opportunities as her older sister, despite the responsive and warm interactions we had, despite giving her just the right amount of support, despite my coaching and modelling efforts, she just never seemed ready to self sooth or to truly trust the adults in her life. 

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I didn't realise socks were an issue!

I didn't realise socks were an issue!

by Jenna Schade January 13, 2020

I didn’t realise that socks were that important, or even an issue for our Chloe.  She didn’t complain very often.  She was just overloaded and crying by the end of most days, and she avoided socks and shoes in general.

Over the years I’ve heard from many Occupational Therapists that it's rarely just one thing that causes overwhelm and dis-regulation, but rather the cumulative affect of many irritants or missed opportunities to reset or regulate the sensory system during the day.

One day I thought to actually try some of our soft, seamless Sensory Socks on Chloe... and they instantly became one of my little secret weapons!

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Why we love speech therapy

Why we love speech therapy

by Jenna Schade August 13, 2019

This year I had the eye-opening experience of trying Speech Therapy with Chloe for the first time, and oh my goodness I really didn't understand ALL that these amazing human beings can do 🙏

To quote the senior therapist and business owner of the practice we attend... she does SO much more than just 'fix lisps'... 
"I am a champion of children, I believe in them, I will never give up and I will help them overcome whatever challenges they face; to become all they can be" 

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Our After School Sensory Retreat

Our After School Sensory Retreat

by Jenna Schade July 04, 2019

At times, our Chloe struggles more than usual with self regulation and 'keeping up' with the demand on her... like when a big change occurs or a new school year starts.  Then even during calmer times, just a standard school day brings major sensory overwhelm.  For those of you who are also trying to help your exhausted, overloaded and emotional child every afternoon... you know what I'm referring to.

Here are some ideas I have gathered over the years from my experience with Chloe, and from my work with Occupational Therapists.  These are for the car trip home or throughout the afternoon once at home.  Our aim is to provide Chloe with an instant 'retreat' away from the sensory world as soon as she finishes school and hopefully help to calm an exhausted brain.

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Why I designed a crash bag for Chloe

Why I designed a crash bag for Chloe

by Jenna Schade June 20, 2019

One of the first things we added to Chloe's home environment was a crash bag.  I designed it myself as I wanted something uniquely perfect for Chloe, and I couldn't find anything similar in my online search within Australia.  I now ship them Australia-wide to families just like mine, and they all say what I already knew... a crash bag can be a LIFE CHANGER!!!

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Visually Sensitive

Visually Sensitive

by Jenna Schade June 13, 2019

I remember that moment when she told me about the lights in the shopping centre SO clearly, because it was a turning point in our relationship with Chloe's (SPD, ASD & Anxiety) brain and in our understanding of this new neurodiverse world we were thrown into. Suddenly we felt this obvious gap between society's expectations of the "norm"... (the pre-programmed view of what life should play out like)... and what our family now wants, needs and lives every day. 

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